Well, here I am again, at the end of another big chapter, and on the verge of another big adventure followed by another new start.
Kristina and I arrived in New York three years ago now, and what a phenomenal three years it's been, slowly but surely eating away at the Big Apple and discovering everything this crazy place has to offer! New York is a truly special place, one of the world's great cities, and we're very lucky to have had the opportunity to call it home. Magnificent skyscrapers and skyline interspersed with beautiful and plentiful parkland (including my most absolute favourite of them all - Central Park on the right), a cornucopia of endless (and sometimes very odd) activities and entertainment, an amazing food and bar scene (especially those of the rooftop variety), vibrant and diverse neighbourhoods (and neighbours), a shopper's paradise, and a chaos-lover's dream. In a manner of speaking, this city really does never sleep.
New York is not without its trials and tribulations however, many of which we've simply grown accustomed to and accepting of, and take completely for granted until someone visiting us from elsewhere comments on them. For starters, New York is expensive; fucking expensive! Everything costs considerably more here (plus our income is taxed both at the city and state level), and what you get for your money compared to elsewhere is frankly depressing. Take accommodation for example - we've been paying $1,800 per month to rent our tiny studio apartment, and, as many locals have informed us, that's actually a great deal! Granted it is the Upper East Side of Manhattan, and there are better deals to be had if you're willing to compromise a little, but knowing what $1,800 per month (or even half of that) can get you elsewhere does induce some disbelief. The next biggest complaint would have to be the traffic, both vehicular and human (keeping in mind New York is the most populated, and the most densely populated, city in the whole country). For me, the vehicular traffic is actually one of my most favourite things about the place, given my love of cycling in it hahaha! The human traffic however is just a pain in the ass. The Subway, though vital, is overcrowded and underfunded, and attracts an element that even lifelong locals can find intimidating. It feels like every street corner has a resident homeless person, personal safety and wellbeing is always a concern, the dating scene is a nightmare (or so I've heard, a lot), and the winters are positively brutal and seem to go on forever.
All that aside, here are a few articles I've happened upon during our time here that give a good sense of just how unique New York really is:
I don't concur with everything in that last article but it's clear that for some folk, New York is synonymous with stress and, ironically, even loneliness, while for others it is literally the centre of the universe. Suffice it to say, it really does take a certain type of personality to embrace a city like New York and to flourish here. Through all of it, Kristina and I have loved every minute and we're both going to really miss the city and our time here, but we always knew New York was temporary - even we couldn't live here forever. So with that being the case, and the fact we have no intention of starting a family here which is becoming more of a talking point, the time is right to move on and find that perfect spot.
Tomorrow we start our big four-month road trip that I've been banging on about for ages, eventually finishing up in in Kristina's home state of Texas to begin the next chapter. |
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